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I Have Relationship Problems

My boyfriend just broke up with me but I can't accept it. Im not ready to let him go. Im making things worse though because I keep calling and texting him. I just can't help myself. My thoughts are obsessing over the break up. I cant stop thinking about it. I want things to be different but I dont know what to do.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I can already diagnose this. You may not realize you're doing this, but you sound controlling. I had to end a relationship for the same reason. Constant calling/texting/needing to know where someone is sounds like a HUGE trust issue, and those are real killers. Best thing you can do is BACK OFF. You cannot truly control anyone, and why the f would you want to? Being out of touch is the only way he will become interested again(yes, it is the opposite of what you think, but it works)