I understand the need to fix and make it better or different...especially when you want one thing and the other person wants another...you feel like you could have done something differently and if they just give you the chance you can fix it. ...but, let me give you some advice from experience: it never works. They only get farther away and colder. They run ....we are made into the crazy people because they cannot handle that we have been hurt and might need some extra sympathy or time to grasp.
The end of a relationship is never quite that simple. The one who ends it wants to move on and go forward before the one who is left is able to grasp and accept...both have valid feelngs ...but only one gets turned into the crazy one ...
As hard as it is, you have to stop. It will only make you craziet and more hurt. You have to distract yourself..find someone else to listen to.everything you have to say...write it all down in a letter and store it away....just stop calling and texting. Give it time and space and maybe in time he will be willing to hear you out...but you cannot keep doing this to yourself.
