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I Got The Cane Or Slipper In The Sixth Form

I was caned twice during my sixth form years in the early 1960s, once for skipping school and smoking and once for an offence which embarrassed the Headmistress – an agonising six of the best on both occasions. At my school the girl’s age seemed irrelevant when she was to be disciplined. It was entirely the nature and seriousness of your offence that determined your punishment. It mattered not whether you were a trembling 11 year old or a hardened sixth former - a caning offence was a caning offence. The only thing that changed was that the canings became more severe as you got older. The other change of course was that as you matured and became more worldly-wise, you were much more careful to stick to the rules (a plus in favour of corporal punishment) but equally rather more careful to avoid being caught when you did misbehave. So from memory, there was a significant decline in the frequency of canings as we progressed, and by sixth form, it was becoming much more of an ‘event’ when one of us was caned.

Few, if any, of the girls would have avoided the cane in their seven years at the school, but I think only a minority of us sixth-formers got the cane.
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lancashirelady50 · 70-79, F
Growing up in the 1950’s and 1960’s the practice of corporal punishment was accepted as quite normal. At school and at home. The surrounding culture was supportive, too. Neighbours, friends, parents, schoolteachers. Characters in books and comics- we grew up with expected consequences for misbehaviour.
My parents had the same attitude about rules and behaviour- , that well worn phrase, “As long as you live under this roof you abide by the rules..." sort of mentality.
 
It is ironic that in the Catholic Primary and Girls Grammar school convent I went to we learnt about God meaning LOVE - and yet... I was to overhear the contradictory Biblical phrase about not “sparing the rod!” Several times in my life!
What a lesson as well.
All many, many years ago!
Josie
harveyrider · 61-69, M
@lancashirelady50 how frequently was the rod used in your Catholic primary and secondary schools?
MaryWat · 70-79, F
The strange interplay of Christian charity and Christian discipline was also something I recall. At my Cof E grammar school, we knew someone was in extreme trouble when the Headmistress, a devout lady who always lead morning assembly, intoned a prayer which included words "Oh Lord, teach us to be kind and courteous to all we meet in our daily lives"

For some reason she always used those words when, at the end of assembly, she was going to make an example of some poor girl by naming her publicly, describing her invariably very serious offence, and , ordering her to report to her study immediately after assembly, where she would be "severely punished". No one had the slightest doubt that meant a caning. @lancashirelady50
N2Bparka · 61-69, M
@MaryWat I do remember some ranting lecture address to all in a morning assembly when I was in the 2nd/3rd form sometime where doom gloom and threats of canings due to a grafiti problem (was it even called grafiti then!), which ended something like "remember christ was flogged, if it was good enough for him, it is good enough for you ... Let Us Pray". I don't think that was really a correct interpretation of the matter!
Sharon · F
@N2Bparka
"remember christ was flogged,
I didn't know that. How much did they get for him? ;)
N2Bparka · 61-69, M
@Sharon hehe.

I'd have got least 6 cane strokes if made such a remark in response atb the time.
lancashirelady50 · 70-79, F
@harveyrider never saw the cane in Our Girls Grammar school despite the horror stories the big girls would try and scare us with! The PE mistress would brandish her slipper but I never saw anybody get it!
The primary school had a cane for (almost exclusively) boys and it was given across the hands in the Head’s office. Lots of smacks though- especially on the back of girls legs! Josie