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I Got The Cane Or Slipper In The Sixth Form

I was caned twice during my sixth form years in the early 1960s, once for skipping school and smoking and once for an offence which embarrassed the Headmistress – an agonising six of the best on both occasions. At my school the girl’s age seemed irrelevant when she was to be disciplined. It was entirely the nature and seriousness of your offence that determined your punishment. It mattered not whether you were a trembling 11 year old or a hardened sixth former - a caning offence was a caning offence. The only thing that changed was that the canings became more severe as you got older. The other change of course was that as you matured and became more worldly-wise, you were much more careful to stick to the rules (a plus in favour of corporal punishment) but equally rather more careful to avoid being caught when you did misbehave. So from memory, there was a significant decline in the frequency of canings as we progressed, and by sixth form, it was becoming much more of an ‘event’ when one of us was caned.

Few, if any, of the girls would have avoided the cane in their seven years at the school, but I think only a minority of us sixth-formers got the cane.
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Strictgram · 70-79, C
Too bad canes are now in museums.
Sharon · F
@Strictgram They're still obtainable from all good sex shops.
Strictgram · 70-79, C
@Sharon But they're not in schools and in very few homes.
Sharon · F
@Strictgram I think my friends and I wore out all those our school had. ;)
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Strictgram Abolished in UK schools in the 1980s - and other countries earlier still. In some countries, including I think now Scotland which had a bad past reputation, it is illegal to hit children even at home. Good. Violence, especially beyond a slap by the palm of the hand, solves nothing and should never be necessary for genuine discipline.

(Discipline does not mean punishment, as its etymology shows; punishment does not axiomatically mean violence - except to those with a warped desire to beat children.)

I am of the same generation as you and Lancashirelady, and attended two Infant's. one Primary and an 1100-roll Grammar school (all mixed and local-authority. CP was used but it a very rare last resort, and the general standard of behaviour and discipline was very good. I think that was because it relied on genuine respect, rather than merely fear masquerading as "respect".