The out women or outer women. Is the one that places her-self on the outer side. In her in-sane thinking, she thinks that she is the in-side women. The one he tells all his inner emotions too. The one he can hide with and be all him-self. The outer women, must have steel nails that can cling on with super strength to the little she gets. The little she gets as an outer, she will blow up in her mind to be some big gestures that he did just for her, so she can hang on and hang onto. Watch a motor bike that has a side car attached. The outer women sits in this side-car. It must seem so exiting to be in the side car. This bumpy and un-safe place, tucked away on the side. Taken out not very often as is so un-safe. Hold on he tells her, I will be back, not sure when, we, then can have another ride, just not sure when.
The biker, the MM. Still has his car, he puts air pressure in his tyres. He will tune his car, give it a wash. Takes this main car for its regular service. He makes sure this car is safe, safe for him and his children to drive around with. This side car passenger, what about her?
This outer women has to find help, to cope with her un-safe love. She has to reach out, to let her-self be heard, as she holds her un-safe love on the outer fringes of insanity. She bonds with all the other outer women to feel safe in her un-safe life. They bond and they tie together these bands of outer, other women. They have each other, they have text messages, they have text messages, they have text messages to keep them hanging on.
The OW will post – “He sent me a text” ……BIG DEAL!
A BIG DEAL WILL BE…….WHEN HE LEAVES HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FOR YOU
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Hey bitch.. tell your friend Solo that just because we aren't here, that it doesn't mean our relationships have changed. And the next time I see her car behind me, I am escorting her ass home, and letting him deal with her. She thinks she intimidated me, she needs to think again. He knows I've seen her outside my place, and in my FB. But because she can't bring me up to him, since she has no leg to stand on, (affair with James, DUI, 6 jobs in a year, and her raging temper) and he may just tell her to get the fk out.. And her going ballistic on her kid instead of facing H, so that he ends up walking into WW3 between them, is not getting her any brownie points.
Hay KOKO, very simple for him to leave her sorry ass, yet he is still there. What a great catch he is. With so many life issues hanging on his neck. Great catch, great catch this dude is. Keep him sister, keep him ...... You 2 make great life choice .....
@Flutterby: OUR CHOICE - what about his son? If this son does mean so much, why does he have to see the mess his father had made of his life. That he treats his son this way, tells allot about him, his sense of value. This poor child is in your choice, he does not want you in his life. So.... our choice, no what about this son that has no choice. What a fuck wit you both are .....if you do love this man, then let his son be free of you and your so called messy love.
His father is the only stable parent he has. No mess made there. He treats his son just fine thanks. He's popular, well liked, does well in school, and has a lot of friends. He's very much like his dad, which is a benefit, not a hindrance. She's the stumbling mumbling yelling screaming door slamming shrew. Someone he couldn't trust with visits, so, he's always been there as a buffer and to supervise. Not having to worry about court ordered visits where he would have no clue what she exposed him too. There are no manuals for raising children and being a parent, did yours come with one? We all do the best we can. Having an outlet and keeping sane is what's helped him stay, and be available on a daily basis. And there isn't a single person in his life who would begrudge him that, no doubts. I will never apologize for, or change, being that person for him. Not ever. And nothing you, or anyone else says, will ever change that.
@SoFine: You know, he's not he only kid on the planet who's grown up in a house with an alcoholic parent, and he won't be the last. He's just luck enough to have one parent who has an outlet to keep him sane and happy. Many don't.
And it's not my drama. What goes on there has absolutely nothing to do with me, and does not affect me in any way.
NOT MY CIRCUS, NOT MY MONKEYS
My relationship is with him, and only with him, always has been. It's happy and calm and peaceful and 100% drama free.
Oh and insane.. has no hyphen. It looks stupid that way.
@Flutterby: 1. Wife 2. Son. 3. Husband. 4. Other women so their is at least 4 in this circus. You kid you when you say it is only 2, this may justify you, but it is not the truth .......
You seem to have #1 and #4 backwards. I see #4 way more often than I do #1. Which fyi is my choice. Because #4 is one of my priorities, along with #2. Or I would have stopped seeing her when #1 stalked her. Yes, I know all about that by the way. But I have no intention of stopping something I have embraced, and do not in anyway consider wrong. I don't care what anyone else thinks.
