The out women or outer women. Is the one that places her-self on the outer side. In her in-sane thinking, she thinks that she is the in-side women. The one he tells all his inner emotions too. The one he can hide with and be all him-self. The outer women, must have steel nails that can cling on with super strength to the little she gets. The little she gets as an outer, she will blow up in her mind to be some big gestures that he did just for her, so she can hang on and hang onto. Watch a motor bike that has a side car attached. The outer women sits in this side-car. It must seem so exiting to be in the side car. This bumpy and un-safe place, tucked away on the side. Taken out not very often as is so un-safe. Hold on he tells her, I will be back, not sure when, we, then can have another ride, just not sure when.
The biker, the MM. Still has his car, he puts air pressure in his tyres. He will tune his car, give it a wash. Takes this main car for its regular service. He makes sure this car is safe, safe for him and his children to drive around with. This side car passenger, what about her?
This outer women has to find help, to cope with her un-safe love. She has to reach out, to let her-self be heard, as she holds her un-safe love on the outer fringes of insanity. She bonds with all the other outer women to feel safe in her un-safe life. They bond and they tie together these bands of outer, other women. They have each other, they have text messages, they have text messages, they have text messages to keep them hanging on.
The OW will post – “He sent me a text” ……BIG DEAL!
A BIG DEAL WILL BE…….WHEN HE LEAVES HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FOR YOU
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I win, I win says the ow when he leaves his wife. No more competitive drills to get him to put me first...now we must take our time and really get to know one another, says TOW and yet the ow still puts on a mask because she wants to be certain that whatever made him leave his wife, will not be the same reason he leaves her. So she becomes his puppet and begins to see him for the man he really is...a coward or better yet begins to wonder if he's cheating on her ...a vicious cycle
@Peachy115: With menopause, how will these changes be for you, or have they happened. You could be more bitchy, then he will trade up, for a pretty young sazzy, lovely younger model.
