I Am The Other Woman

All parties are better off, when the MM gets divorced ……

If your MM is not shorting out his life and getting a divorce, then leave.
Yes, this may be un-kind, but the health off all parties benefits, when the fighting and the family feud have ended.

Children don’t benefit when the man stays for the sake of the children. Children growth is stumped by feuding parents…(they feel the guilt, the minor takes on the guilt, is not funny but a child under 18 thinks that way)

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RainBisou · F

What if the fueding never stops? My father left us for another woman, I can tell you this, knowing your own father chose a woman over his own children, that does a little more than stumped growth, that shit stays with you for the rest of your life...the feuding never stopped. So to say it will stop after a parent leaves in every case is just not true.

SoFine · 46-50, F

Then please don't make the same mistakes, as your parents. Many MM lie to so many and hurt so many. That is why we try to let the OW be aware of the life they chose to get mixed up with.

RainBisou · F

@SoFine: i have no intention to, unlike my father my children come first period

RainBisou · F

@SoFine: i am not judging you and your situation but to say leaving is best for the children is a broad statement at best, it isnt in every case

SoFine · 46-50, F

@Rain-Bisou: The point is not to get mixed up with a MM in the first place. As many stay married, they string along the females on both sides ..

RainBisou · F

@SoFine: Right