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I Am The Other Woman

Are you really sitting back watching him try and save his marriage? Are you that desperate to be involved with a man that you are willing to sacrifice your own happiness for his? Are you really sitting back watching him lie to his wife over and over again on repairing the damage he has done to his marriage? Do you realize that he's not being authentic?
If he saves his marriage, what will you do? Continue being his secret? If his marriage fails, will he chose you? Do you believe that the classes that he's taking is making him a more empathetic man or a man who will use the techniques he's learning to be a better narcissist?

What are your feelings towards him going away with his wife for Valentine's Weekend? I know that you are hurting. I know that it tears you up inside to know that he's doing everything to keep his family together. But I know that you are worth way more than he's giving you credit for. You deserve your own happiness. You deserve a man that will treat you with respect and love you without hurting anyone in the process. Are you aware that his kids know about you? Are you aware that he's wrapped up in his own life that he's not aware of the pain he's inflicting on his children?

You are aware that she knows that he has told you that he's only staying for the kids. YOu are aware that he has lied lied lied to you and his family for years. You do know that he is a broken man. You do know that he is a confused man. While sitting in wait, take a good look at what he's really doing.....
I do realize that you are happy in the position that you are in. You will love him and be with him regardless of what is decided on his marriage Whether his marriage last or not is not a concern for you and that’s understandable. But how fair is it to his BS? Not your monkeys I know but if the marriage does not last will you be comfortable in talking with his x? Could you attend family functions under the assumption that no one ever knew of you?

Another persons pain is someone else’s pleasure
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Thank god for this post. Bet you enlightened so many women. 👍
@Keepitsimple It wasn't meant for enlightening other women. Everyone has choices. People make those choices based on their own needs wants and desires. It wasn't meant for anyone but who it serves....

 
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