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I Am The Other Woman

Why do most assume it's automatically the other woman's fault???
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Because it's their fault... if they werent there nothing would happen.
Tonia3 · 56-60, F
@MartinTheFirst sorry bud but that's not true...
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Tonia3 How can something happen if there is no one there to do it with in the first place?
@MartinTheFirst if the dude kept his hands and prick to himself it also wouldn't have happened.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CopperCicada yeah so it's ultimately the other woman and the man's fault
Tonia3 · 56-60, F
@MartinTheFirst is it???
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Tonia3 yes.. give me one good reason to as why it's not
@MartinTheFirst i put the primary blame with those who have marriage precepts.

if the man is married, the woman single-- it's with him.
if the man is single, the woman married-- it's with her.
if they are both married-- with both of them.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CopperCicada well that's incorrect. It's both parties fault since both of them betrayed another human being.

It's said in the Bible that it's a sin to lay your eyes on another person's partner. That is what I stand firmly by.
Tonia3 · 56-60, F
@MartinTheFirst you've already made your judgement,why explain...
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Tonia3 Because I am a man with a mouth and as a man with a mouth I will voice my response to someone commenting on what I say.

Im not judging anyone btw. Im just saying how it's both people's faults.
@MartinTheFirst it's like this. who is betraying who?

the married person stands up in front of god, family, friends, whoever when they are married. and when they cheat they are betraying all of them, as well as their spouse, and the person they are cheating with.

the "other", presuming they are not similarly betrothed, is not betraying as many people.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CopperCicada Yet they are still betraying people and doing wrong while being aware that what they're doing is wrong. Hence why the answer to Tonia3's question is "because it is their fault".
@MartinTheFirst Yes. They are both at fault. No doubt.

But I would place the married person as much more at fault.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CopperCicada That's okay with me.