Have you ever had the perfect step mom in your life?

I am mom. But I feel as if my ex married the perfect wife who is now the perfect step mom. She’s crafty, entrepreneurial, full of energy.this truly is the ONLY woman who has ever made me feel insecure and sick to my stomach as they plan to persuade her to move in with them. I know because of the comments I over hear, and the frequency in which they call her. And the bribes.