Is she truly ready for a proposal? Will I regret making such a step?

Her parents asking me why is it that I haven't proposed to their daughter and if I'm just wasting years of her life.

We've been together for 3yrs and it's been some good time we had but I can't help but think how many times she got angry and cut me off for the silliest reasons. This girl got pregnant and terminated it because she was trying to "get back at me" for going on that work trip with my female boss. I can't talk to a female or even laugh with a coworker of the opposite sex. I love her like crazy I really do but I don't want to get myself in a trap either.

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TexChik · F

She killed your child "to get back at you" ! WTF! Why do you even need to ask this question? Obviously your gut is telling your mind not to pull the trigger. She is unstable and will likely be getting alimony soon if you marry. Run! Her parents know .

Indifferent · 36-40, M

@TexChik you're prolly right. She always makes me feel like the bad guy.

TexChik · F

@Indifferent In this case, that one act alone should have you running for the hills.

Indifferent · 36-40, M

@TexChik I honestly don't know why I stuck around

TexChik · F

@Indifferent A bird in the hand? She is likely going to be a problem if you decided to break up with her. If you are living together you have the common law marriage issue to deal with.

Indifferent · 36-40, M

@TexChik yes! We do live together. Her dad is an attorney and he keeps drilling that into my head.

TexChik · F

@Indifferent Then you need to make a plan of escape. If you have shared bills that will be an issue. You might need to consult an attorney of your own. Because you cant run...they will find you. Or you can just start going out with friends and having dates and get her to leave you. Might work

Indifferent · 36-40, M

@TexChik that's what my friends keeps telling me. I'll have to schedule an appointment soon

Indifferent · 36-40, M

@TexChik she won't leave me, I'm worried she'd probably put that lady's life in jeopardy. I'm thinking of everything here