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I Am Sick Of Parents Who Don't Parent

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“If anyone can be called the boss in modern, anti-hierarchical parenthood, it’s the children.” [b]~ Leonard Stern, M.D.[/b] , in [i]“The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups”[/i] [c=#BF0000]http://amzn.to/2wE9ogW[/c]

“Parents who are authoritative have better outcomes, and it’s a larger effect than the effect of race, ethnicity, household income or IQ.”[b] ~ Ibid.[/b]

“In Western society, where equality for everyone has become a cultural objective and a constitutional right, children are treated like they are one more minority group to honor and empower. Empower has come to seem virtuous......Empower everyone, why not?” [b]~ Ibid[/b]


“But many kids are actually overpowering their parents. That’s the problem, say those working in child development. A functional family unit hinges on the one social construct that contemporary society has been working hard to dismantle: hierarchy. You need a strong alpha presentation to inspire a child to trust you and depend upon you.” [b]~ child psychologist Gordon Neufeld[/b], quoted by pediatrician [b]Leonard Stern[/b], in [i]“The Collapse of Parenting,”[/i][b] Ibid.[/b] [center]


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[b]See also[/b] [b][c=#BF0000][i]“I [Becky] Am A Strict Mom”[/i][/c][/b] https://similarworlds.com/2327115-I-Am-A-Strict-Mom/585015-Being-a-strict-Mom-means-more-than-setting-limits

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kinkymech · M
back to spare the rod and spoil the child.. give the little bastards a good spanking :)
@kinkymech How is it for you - living in the dark ages?
@kinkymech I wouldn't call them "little bastards", but in my opinion there should be a lot more spanking going on -- not that spanking is the end all and be all of hierarchical parenting. As discussed in [i]"I Am A Strict Mom"[/i] ( SW link above) -- spanking is actually a symptom.