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I Am a Victim of Emotional Abuse

My sisters ex boyfriend use to live in the same house as me.

He was mentally abusive.

Sometimes she talks about how badly he treated her. And how he was wrong to treat her that way.

And then I'll talk about stuff he has done to me. But when I try she defends him and says it's my fault maybe if I said something in a different way. Or done something differently he wouldn't have acted that way.

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goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

Seems she needs more time to realize he was abusive to everyone. Sorry you went through that.

Footsugar123 · M

I think that's how it goes with people in abusive relationships, it's almost like there hypnotized by the abuser, hopefully she will see what kind of person he is, but I don't know how your relationship with her will be by then, he may turn her against you at so point. I think I would have to tell her she must like how he treats her or she wouldn't stay with him, but that's just me, I had to tell my sister that, she didn't like it to well but it gave her something to think about and is no longer with the guy.

Iamnotacat · 26-30, F

@Footsugar123 they haven't been together for a while now. But for some reason she won't aknoglege that he abused me too. She says it's my fault he treated me badly.

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