4 generations represented in that pic My Ex mother in law ,My Ex ,My daughter and son (my son it the little one the big boy is messing with his hair )and my grandson (the big boy playing with my sons hair At least once a month we meet up for all the birthdays in that month (and yea my ex mother in law and ex wife love me again ,thats a miracle ) Scattered through those woods and down at the spring are 25 - 30 Immediate family members ,and they do this every month We are a very close family ,my kids and my grandkids are my whole world And for them ,my ex and her Mom and I put the past in the past We quit screwing up family events over our differences a long time ago