I used to fucking hate it when people asked me this question. For some reason, society has all these expectations that you MUST have a nice place to live, a good paying job, a car, and have ALL your shit together, AND on top of it, everyone assumes that as a gay man, I will be forever lonely if I don't have a steady boyfriend leading to marriage. I swear, I'm going to quit my job one of these days and buy a nice RV to live out of and travel in and say FUCK all these expectations that people have!!