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I Am Done With One Sided Friendships

No one ever check on me to see if im okay, except my mom and 2 sisters. I wish I could just drop dead.

I woke up to this realisation that no one gives a damn about me. Not my cousins, friends and ppl I've met. I check on them. Sometimes I say hi, Wassup. They rarely say lets meet up. Every time I text they do responds.

I feel like im a crap friend (a new mate once told me that) and no one likes me. My son once told me that years ago. Cousins and friends keeps in touch with my sister and not me. It hurts. Alot.

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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

You can tell who is your true friend's if they just check in on you every sooo often. Without asking for help or money

Julienne · 51-55, F

Exactly! Honestly, I've never asked for anything except checking on them. @smileylovesgaming

I said happy birthday to my cousin today. Didnt even say thank you! What a f** bitch.

I even said how are you. She ignored that question too and just said my mom cant FaceTime cuZ she's busy.

Am I being a b now ? The others do say thank you tho.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@Julienne well I have family I never talk to at all. I tried to message them thru Facebook. They never answer back atr all. So I just quit trying

Julienne · 51-55, F

Maybe they don't check in all the time. I hate Facebook and don't even check in for a year! Ive deleted the account now.

. You got their phone numbers and emails? @smileylovesgaming

frequentlyme · 70-79, M

You have yourself, and that's the best friend ever. Really, you are one of a kind, enjoy yourself, be nice to you, be friends with you. In the end, we are all alone, and it's not such a horrible place to be.

Julienne · 51-55, F

True but everyone do need friends to live well. We all do. @frequentlyme

frequentlyme · 70-79, M

I suppose that is true, in one fashion or another, it does feel good to have a friend. I guess what I'm getting at is the "need" part. Need versus it feels nice. Yes, it feels nice/good/warm/affirming to have a friend recognize you; but and this is just me, needing it to feel good isn't healthy. Imagine if you didn't need it... if you didn't, then you wouldn't feel sad/depressed/upset (you pick which) when you didn't. Just my thoughts, and of course, we all feel differently.

Julienne · 51-55, F

I def understands what you mean and so agree with you. We cant rely on ppl to make us feel good. No thats using them. We have friends because we like them. They make a difference in our lives.

I like my friends, well only one is a good one. @frequentlyme and one other mate gets on my damn nerves so altho I am still in touch with her, I don't hang out with her.

You've given me food for thoughts. You've actually helped me understand fiendship . Thank you.

PhoenixPhail · M

I'm sorry that's happening - with both of us. I can relate. Sometimes people are willing to do something with me, talk with me, but I'm the one who initiates it. I'm not contacted by them. It's very one-sided.

RemovedUsername684729 · 26-30, M

Things will get better. At least you have someone.Just focus on them

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Julienne · 51-55, F

I hear you but when I die , friends wont be there init and they says alot about me.

@RemovedUsername684729

RemovedUsername684729 · 26-30, M

You never know. The world is a small place and there is bound to be someone who finds and loves you

Julienne · 51-55, F

I doubt it but thank you

Myzery · 41-45, F

I know that feeling all too well. I hope things improve for you.

Julienne · 51-55, F

Never expected that response. Thank you. @Myzery

SStarfish ·

Maybe you are too demanding and expect too much from people

Julienne · 51-55, F

Oh really ? Lol. Wow. Do u expect ppl to still treat you well if you mistreat them ? I didnt. Well according to myself.
@SStarfish

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