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Case of disappearing SW friends without notice

Has it happened u speak to a person and have few good conversations and after a week or 2 that person disappears
And just like that! Poof!
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
In my case it was worse.

I´ve had long time friendships.

One friendship lasted 3 months, the other one 9 months, and the last one even 6 years - and all three of them disappeared after such a long time without any goodbye, without just giving any notice. 😞
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@Hummingbird26 I wouldn´t say that they were only wasting time. Especially two of them helped me a lot during the friendship lasted, and one of them influenced me positive a lot about years. But to disappear just like that hurts a lot, and
@zorroo yes, it´s killing. It is killing especially the trust.
And I am so sorry that this has happened to you to. (((💔)))
zorroo · 56-60, M
@Loretta78 unfortunately it is still happening and seems we didn't learn our lesson yet.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@zorroo I hear you. 😞
Or blocks midconvo for NO reason
@CestManan is agree that’s childish behaviour.. atleast finish the conversation and then block🙈🤪
@Hummingbird26 Or, finish the conversation and NOT block. Just ignore, if you want. Why burn bridges?
@PhoenixPhail yes that works too
I talked with one person who disappeared as I was talking with them.
SW-User
I sort of think of this place like a train station: almost everyone you meet there is transient in nature.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@SW-User Kind of like that with anything online though. No worse here than any socia media.
SW-User
@CestManan I wouldn't know, I gave up on other forms of social media other than here.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
that's pretty much standard here
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@Hummingbird26 Oh yes many times
Did they come back after hiatus or vanished @MrGoodbar
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@Hummingbird26 some do and some you never see again
I think it happens to everyone on here.
This happened with me for the first time.. so I guess that’s the reason why I m wondering @stound
LostOrchid · F
I hate it so much 😣
SW-User
SW-User
I've been the person who disappears. I think once I deleted my account half way through writing a comment. It's never planned, just seems like the right thing at the time.
Good going 👍@SW-User
Dshhh · M
i have been here for years now. MOST of my friends are gone
a lot of new users leave in the first 4 weeks
That’s sad these friends leaving @Dshhh
Dshhh · M
@Hummingbird26 yeah and so many in the first month.. some GUYS ruin things for us all
zorroo · 56-60, M
People are weird, they delete their account and come back with new account.
@zorroo these people have a lot of time in their hands then to do such a thing
zorroo · 56-60, M
@Hummingbird26 exactly, the worst part is that they don't care with others feelings.
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Yess.. but I just think it will be right if the leaving person informs about their intention @geoam1
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@Hummingbird26 That would seem the considerate thing to do.
Jungleman · M
i never knew about this, how do you rediscover those friends?
@Jungleman u don’t unless they themselves come and tell u
lovelyguy143334 · 36-40, M
Yes it does happened with me
But hope it will happen again
Rambler · 61-69, M
Yes, it happens. That’s life online.
@Rambler I guess u r right
Yes It happened
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Yeah, all the time.
Kumar007 · 36-40, M
Yes,may happen.
betabored · 31-35, M
SW-User
They are probably here still on another profile. Happens a lot
@InOtterWords quite possible

 
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