I've found that [b][i]if you let it[/i][/b], the pain does not stop but over time it contracts to a manageable presence.
I know nobody who ever loved me would want me to be perpetually crippled by grief.
My father died in 1989 and there are still times I think, "Dad will laugh so hard at that. I have to call him." Then I remember, and briefly it's like the first day.
It's often useful if you can talk about the person you lost with someone else who was close. I think that's because it helps you realize they are still part of your world in a different form.
Your loved one is part of you, brain, blood and sinew. Be glad for that.
@Mamapolo2016 “It’s often useful if you can talk about the person you lost with someone else who was close. I think that's because it helps you realize they are still part of your world in a different form.”
