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Time to Explore

So... nearly as far back as I can remember when it comes to my sexual life, I have always had a desire to be dominant. I am fairly short and petite, and I speak softly, so it's not exactly the impression most people get upon first meeting me, yet here I am.

Anyways, most of my relationships have consisted of men who were not exactly interested in being dominated. A few changed this interest in time, but for the most part, I have led a fun, yet more traditional sex-life with my partners. I told myself that it didn't matter to me enough to intentionally seek out a more sexually submissive man, but that may be changing now. As I am 29 years old now, I've grown tired of putting this desire on the backburner. I have never specifically sought out a sub, until recently.

At the end of my most recent relationship, I have decided to see what it feels like to put myself first, attend to my desires and curiosities without fear of judgment or concern from my significant other. To be honest, I'm mostly excited about exploring pure kink at the moment, not so much looking for the sexual side, but just curious to see how far down the rabbit hole I'll go... and what I'll like while I'm down there.

Today, I met with a potential sub that I met off of a kink-oriented social media site. We met for coffee, and he was perfectly pleasant, enthusiastic, respectful, and adorable. He offered to pay for my coffee, and then (due to COVID restrictions) we took a walk around the neighborhood while we sipped our drinks. We discussed our interests, dislikes, and our past experiences. We talked about our vanilla hobbies and what we might expect from our potential play partner relationship. It was so nice. I felt happy and light upon returning home, and I'm so excited to see where this goes.

We will be meeting again next week.
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Just4fun · 51-55, M
Good for you sounds fun
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@407999,Just4fun] Thanks, excited to give it a go!
Just4fun · 51-55, M
[@492921,wtfgirl001] hope you’ll update on how it goes
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@407999,Just4fun] I definitely plan to!
CelestiaStella · 18-21, F
Hope you find what makes you happy, sweetie. Personally, I don't get you, because I am submissive in sex and life, but everyone deserves their happiness.
tindrummer · M
My partner has with me what you're looking for. Good luck with this guy
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@400948,tindrummer] Thank you!
BirthYear1993 · 26-30, M
World needs more girls like you
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@1114946,BirthYear1993] Haha, thank you. I know there are plenty more out there!
BirthYear1993 · 26-30, M
[@492921,wtfgirl001] please respond to my message
This is really exciting. I have only explored these kinds of relationships on line (as a submissive). I don't know if I would actually want to go there in real life - but I share your happy and light feeling reading about it. Good luck and keep us posted if you wish.
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@1129049,Cinnaman] I love to hear that you shared in the happy and light feeling. And yes, I will definitely post about the updates!
hope it works for you

finding my domme partner is on my bucket list
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@15458,Usedtohaveanoffensiveusername] Thank you, and I wish you luck in finding yours too.
GoodManHere · 46-50, M
And I want to be submissive ☺️
wtfgirl001 · 26-30, F
[@1123264,GoodManHere] Awesome! Then go for it!
Blazer420 · 31-35, M
I wish i could find a girl like you, id love to have a girl who would dominate me hehe tie me up n have fun with me:)

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