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I Know Bad Relationships Change People

Have you ever blamed someone of bringing out all the worst in you? Have you been in a relationship so bad that you think it has took everything that's bright and shiny from your life? I'm not even sure if I have been in those kinds of relationship. All I know is that I'm not utterly glad about how my current relationship is going.

I don't want to blame my partner of what is happening in my life right now. Actually, I don't want to blame anyone of anything that's happening to me. I believe that being happy or sad is all up to me. I take full credit of how my life is going. It's my fault that I'm feeling this way because I let a certain event affect me so much that it made me sad and dysfunctional.

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SW-User

I was in a fucked up relationship for five years up until late last year, she fucked with my head and psychologically abused me, and after breaking up with her I had a fear of falling in love again and felt doomed to be alone forever but I don’t blame her, I blamed myself for allowing it to happen and believed all the degrading stuff she said to me and allowing it to kill my self esteem.
I have recently met someone new and just started a new relationship, and she has been quite patient with me and completely understood my vulnerability, not only I am genuinely happy with my new girl but I feel really safe with her too.

Buckbeak · 31-35, F

@SW-User Good for you. Congratulations for overcoming a bad relationship. Cheers to that awesome lady. She will be so blessed for putting a smile on your face.