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I Know Bad Relationships Change People

Have you ever blamed someone of bringing out all the worst in you? Have you been in a relationship so bad that you think it has took everything that's bright and shiny from your life? I'm not even sure if I have been in those kinds of relationship. All I know is that I'm not utterly glad about how my current relationship is going.

I don't want to blame my partner of what is happening in my life right now. Actually, I don't want to blame anyone of anything that's happening to me. I believe that being happy or sad is all up to me. I take full credit of how my life is going. It's my fault that I'm feeling this way because I let a certain event affect me so much that it made me sad and dysfunctional.
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SoFine · 46-50, F
We all get triggered by current events that reminds us of previous hurts.
Thst saying "are you upset for the reason that you think you are or its a reminder of a similar old hurt".

That "Special" person will trigger one, not with intent yet they will.

Yes, how long we stay upset for, that's in our control, how long, we stay a victim is up to each one.

Yip, our own happiness is our own life job. (People will upset us, it's how long we stay there is our own doing)

To be
To be happy for no reason than to be happy.