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I Know Bad Relationships Change People

Have you ever blamed someone of bringing out all the worst in you? Have you been in a relationship so bad that you think it has took everything that's bright and shiny from your life? I'm not even sure if I have been in those kinds of relationship. All I know is that I'm not utterly glad about how my current relationship is going.

I don't want to blame my partner of what is happening in my life right now. Actually, I don't want to blame anyone of anything that's happening to me. I believe that being happy or sad is all up to me. I take full credit of how my life is going. It's my fault that I'm feeling this way because I let a certain event affect me so much that it made me sad and dysfunctional.

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I actually have had somebody bring out the worst in me and then some. It was like a match and gasoline and burning down the town bad toxic relationship. One I never want to endure again.

Buckbeak · 31-35, F

@Keepitsimple This man is the father of my daughter. This relationship has brought out all the worst that I have in my heart and mind. But still, I stay by his side and I keep asking him to stay no matter how many times I tell him to go away. The reason is that I take my immaturity as the culprit to my poor decision making and I just can't bear to let my family, especially my daughter, to be affected greatly just because of it.

Problems are made by two people not agreeing with each other. That's why we are both to blame of our disagreement. We talk it out and work it out. Because the truth is, I do love him. And I have to endure because being in a relationship requires understanding and resolution. I don't know if what I'm doing is right, but I think that we can stay together as long as there is still love