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I Hate Dead Beat Parents

Yeah, 20 some years & not a dime of child support. Bastard gets visitation anyway when she was young. But never was consistent and basically faded out. Then some shit happened and there was a 10 yr order of protection. Now that it's expired, HE claimed he wanted contact (live in same town) and my daughter wanted contact also. However, he made excuses AGAIN (just like before)and more lies, and now even BLOCKED her from messaging or calling him. WHAT A POS. I personally didn't want them to have contact again and I know she is much better off without him. However, he is still her Father and I understood, to a degree, her need to want to have a FATHER DAUGHTER relationship.

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ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

I don't blame you. Most deadbeats care only about themselves and they assume that the kids should chase them around kissing their butts. They have a lot of nerve. As far as I'm concerned they should be jailed until the kid turns 18. No good ass losers burn in hell!

St0ut · 51-55, M

I don’t have custody of my kids.
I know it doesn’t sound like it from my posts. But I divorced her not them

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@St0ut Do you have visitation? Do you pay child support?

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Sometimes you just have to experience it. She will know the truth

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@smileylovesgaming Oh she DOES know the truth now! She's better off. Believe me. So much better off without him

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Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@updown2020 why don't you get the fuck off my post! And DON'T TELL ME how I am suppose to fuckin respond when you clearly did not read through my post. I will speak and use whatever fuckin words I want to on my goddamn post you fuckin annoying pigturd. Rude enough for you?

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

And now for anyone else reading this, updown2020 is now BLOCKED. If I feel I need suggestions or advice I will clearly ASK for it. I come here to vent mostly. I can handle my own life. I didn't delete any of my posts because I stated facts and I wasn't being nasty, but keep pushing my buttons and ya will see another side of me.

My daughter is a grown woman now. And I just hate seeing her having to go through this shit AGAIN, after a 10 year order of protection from HIM!!!! Because she wanted to mend ways and have a fucking Father in her life. But clearly he still doesn't know or want to be a Father to her. She will move on, but I know it will leave an everlasting void in her life and for that, I am angry as fuck with him to treat her this way. I know her pain. I've walked in her shoes. All I can do is support her and love her.

ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

@Wolfdancer And you vent on girl. I'm here to listen.

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Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@updown2020 LOL I fought for over 20 years and got nothing. Then in 2017 I got a phone call saying I had a lump sum coming and payments thereafter. Better late than never.

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Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@updown2020 Yep. Nothing. Not a damn penny all these years smdh Gotta love NY State

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