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I Have Lost a Sibling

My mother, who is now 84 went into the hospital to give birth. She was in labour for a long time and I believe they gave her something to "knock her out" anyway she woke up to a nurse offering her a cup of tea, this was in England. She said I would just like to see my baby. The nurse simply replied; " oh I'm sorry he died." No counselling no help nothing. To make matters worse my parents were unable to give my brother a proper funeral, because he died before he could be baptized. He was buried in an unmarked grave, with just a number to mark his final resting place.
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Heartlander · 80-89, M
How so very sad. We are all absolutely equal in death.

My living will says that I am to be cremated and only my close friends know what to do with my ashes. Just like there are rules about burials, there are also laws about where you can and can't dispose of humans ashes. Hint: but there are no police agencies to enforce those laws.