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Is it worth stayinf for the sake of a disrespectful 11 year old daughter?

My husband and my daughter came back here to get some things. As me and my husband were trying to talk about the situation, my daughter wont stop yelling "Shut up!" "You don't use your brain!"

But my husband smirked in triumph! Looking so proud of what his daughter is saying.

I don't know in which way I can speak to my daughter. I tried being quiet and not make any reactions, but she was yelling abusive words towards me.

After the incident last Wednesday, when my daughter almost push me down the stairs, it's absolutely a lot worse now. It sounds like she has been brainwashed so much. She uttered a lot more negative insults towards me.

I am fighting to stay, but I don't know what has been said to my daughter. She seems not to have any remorse at all.

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SW-User

No. They're too far gone, and if she's willing to try and push you down the stairs, it's time to leave. Maybe when she is older she'll understand what she did was completely wrong, but as they are... No. Let them figure out their own way through life. They don't deserve you.

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

I feel so hurt, but I still love her forever. 💔😭@SW-User

SW-User

@tryingtobeOK The best thing to do is leave. If you still want to be in her life, you'll have to take him to a custody court battle for at minimum mandatory visitations.
My parents split when I was very young and I saw my mother on weekends and holidays. No court needed, since I was willing and neither wanted to fight over it.