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Were you close to your father?

I only ask because I never was, and when he passed away several years ago I had to make peace with the fact that we never had a relationship, which was tough. Being a father myself, I have a very solid relationship with my own son, which I'm very thankful for.
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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
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super close!

We don’t always agree but very thankful I have my dad
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
@Spoiledbrat yes 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
@SW-User @MrBlueGuy @bijouxbroussard thank you guys 🙏🏽
Piper · 61-69, F
Yes. No matter how often we were angry at or disappointed in each other, the love and closeness was always there. I know how blessed I was, that he was my father.
I'm sorry you didn't have that.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Good job, my dude. I'm not close with my own dad.
Peapod · 61-69, F
I can relate to you.

At one time I was close to my dad. He was my whole world when I was a kid. But sadly, he changed after my mother left. I think he really was never up for the challenge of being a full time dad.

I do know he had a good heart and did the best he knew how. I miss him and I do forgive him for all the times he wasn't there for me. It took me a while to get there though.

I too work all the harder to be a better parent than what I had. It's all I can do.
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Only towards the end of his life. I took care of him for two years.
Not really, but I know he loved me. He passed away in 2004 and I remember a dream I had where I was talking to my mom on the phone and she told me my dad wanted to speak to me. I remember in the dream thinking it was odd as he never wanted to speak to me over the phone. He gets on the phone and says hello and I asked him how he was and he said he was good and very busy. I asked him if he liked it there and he said it was a very special place and that he loved me and missed me. I woke up.
I know he loves me and is in a much better place than this. ❤️
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I’d be asking him why he’s doing this. If he loves you he would not do that to your mother. @Snorky
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Make sure he understands that if he does he will lose you. @Snorky
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I wasn't. He passed when I was 12. I was a disappointment 2 him bc he was very mechanically inclined, except 4 cars, he was lost. Cars r the only thing Ik mechanical & I got my 1st job as an apprentice @ a garage.
No. I had to deal with the same when mine passed. Not sure I'm really at peace with it. But also don't think I could ever really be.
LordofFlatbush · 56-60, M
@Callmewhatyouwill I know. It's a terrible feeling to carry around.
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very much so throughout my childhood but less so in latter years. although still closer than a lot of people are to their dads lol. he died in april.
LordofFlatbush · 56-60, M
@SW-User Sorry for your loss
Not really but I've grown a little closer. Not a lot but hey it's something.. Lol
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
No, my father doesn’t know me and we live in the same town.
Yes, Pop and I speak often. He’s always been there for me throughout my life and I feel very fortunate to still have both him and my mother.
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No . He didn't care anything about me .
LordofFlatbush · 56-60, M
@SW-User Sorry to hear that
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@LordofFlatbush Thank you .
Yeah I'm close with my dad.
Close enough.
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Yes, even when we hated each other.
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It's complicated, I would say no, but he's gonna say yes.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
My father was the worst human being I've ever known. I learned very early to keep a careful distance and to lie.
Stephanidunord · 18-21, F
Never met him
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My dad and I are close and get along well. It helps that he's as much of a nerd as I am. :)
LordofFlatbush · 56-60, M
@SW-User Cool. Sounds like my relationship with my own son. We're both super nerds.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
No... He's a narcissist and an all around toxic person.
But that's okay, I'll make sure my future children have a loving dad :)
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