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I Hate My Parents

I don't really hate them I'm angry right now and they won't apologize. My parents have been after me about getting a job for months. They keep bugging me and bugging me. My dad scold me for seeking volunteer work instead of real work that pays. He has been hard on me a lot. Mom too. I've been crying all day about my crush not loving me back. He got BLUNT with me saying, "So you're just laying around in bed all day crying over one guy that don't love you back? Pathetic! Not only you're embarassing us but youre embarassing yourself! Buck up and stop the pitty party shit already!" I cried more but he left me to suffer.


I cried and he would ignore me.
He said grow up, stop using my friend's death as an excuse amd get a job. Now they're giving me 30 say notice either get a job or leave! Is he kidding? My friend died seven months ago. It isn't enough to grieve. People seem no move on and think nothing happened. My friends even told me to get me to get a job me too. My best friend said, "I don't mean to be rude but you can't be sad all the time! Our friend would have called you out for being lazy and crying over him every day. He would want us to be happy. You're parents are right." I couldn't believe she said that! Rude.
Anyways my parents are being jerks.
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SW-User
Seven months isn't long enough to forget but it's too long to put your life on hold and you don't serve someone's memory well by giving up on life yourself. They would want you to live the life that they no longer can, to cherish it.

If you don't feel that you are coping well with the grief then you need to seek counselling and you may need medication. What you can't do is nothing. That just isn't practical.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@SW-User I don't believe this, you're on their side!
SW-User
@LaurieKitKat94 No, I'm actually on your side, I want you to get on with your life and not let it stagnate.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Even by best friend is telling me I can't be sad all the time. She wasn't gentle with me about this. She is sad too but she said to don't expect her to pamper me all the time and I need to shape up and be a woman. She said my parents WANTED me to supper to become a better person. Not the answer I wanted. She is too blunt and assertive
SW-User
@LaurieKitKat94 It is maybe the answer that you needed though. You didn't die, your friend did. Honour their memory by living!