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I Hate My Parents

I don't really hate them I'm angry right now and they won't apologize. My parents have been after me about getting a job for months. They keep bugging me and bugging me. My dad scold me for seeking volunteer work instead of real work that pays. He has been hard on me a lot. Mom too. I've been crying all day about my crush not loving me back. He got BLUNT with me saying, "So you're just laying around in bed all day crying over one guy that don't love you back? Pathetic! Not only you're embarassing us but youre embarassing yourself! Buck up and stop the pitty party shit already!" I cried more but he left me to suffer.


I cried and he would ignore me.
He said grow up, stop using my friend's death as an excuse amd get a job. Now they're giving me 30 say notice either get a job or leave! Is he kidding? My friend died seven months ago. It isn't enough to grieve. People seem no move on and think nothing happened. My friends even told me to get me to get a job me too. My best friend said, "I don't mean to be rude but you can't be sad all the time! Our friend would have called you out for being lazy and crying over him every day. He would want us to be happy. You're parents are right." I couldn't believe she said that! Rude.
Anyways my parents are being jerks.
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
No, your parents want you to act like an adult. You can grieve but your life isn't over so you need to start living it. You are over 18 why should they still be responsible for taking care of you at this age? What if (and I certainly hope not) something happened to both your parents? Would you just be homeless? How would you support yourself? You are not a child and even if you were, you still need to be productive. Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to gain you anything and it looks like you have 30 days, you might want to get off SW and get to filling out applications.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@dreamsicle 😠😠
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
@LaurieKitKat94 You're very childish. Good luck to you and whoever's burden you become.
SW-User
Seven months isn't long enough to forget but it's too long to put your life on hold and you don't serve someone's memory well by giving up on life yourself. They would want you to live the life that they no longer can, to cherish it.

If you don't feel that you are coping well with the grief then you need to seek counselling and you may need medication. What you can't do is nothing. That just isn't practical.
SW-User
@LaurieKitKat94 No, I'm actually on your side, I want you to get on with your life and not let it stagnate.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Even by best friend is telling me I can't be sad all the time. She wasn't gentle with me about this. She is sad too but she said to don't expect her to pamper me all the time and I need to shape up and be a woman. She said my parents WANTED me to supper to become a better person. Not the answer I wanted. She is too blunt and assertive
SW-User
@LaurieKitKat94 It is maybe the answer that you needed though. You didn't die, your friend did. Honour their memory by living!
Keeper · M
If I had a 20+ yr old living with me without a job, I'd be saying the same thing.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@Keeper 😠😠
Gouzi · 26-30, M
If you were my daughter, i'd kick you out. It seems you are so stupid only the necessity of survival or would make you get a job.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@Gouzi I though this was a great website but I might leave! You guys don't even care! My friend passed away and you guys are telling me to grow up! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
Gouzi · 26-30, M
@LaurieKitKat94 try using a cute profile picture. It may result in more empathy.
LaurieKitKat94 · 26-30, F
@Gouzi 😮😮😮😮
Ian123 · 61-69, M
I think there are faults on both sides. why dont you all get together and talk it through. Get the problems talked about and you can move on.
Platoscave · F
Have you tried living on your own before?

Do you have a girlfriend who can share with you?

Do you have salable skills?
*Hugs you virtually*

 
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