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dreamsicle 路 46-50, F
No, your parents want you to act like an adult. You can grieve but your life isn't over so you need to start living it. You are over 18 why should they still be responsible for taking care of you at this age? What if (and I certainly hope not) something happened to both your parents? Would you just be homeless? How would you support yourself? You are not a child and even if you were, you still need to be productive. Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to gain you anything and it looks like you have 30 days, you might want to get off SW and get to filling out applications.
LaurieKitKat94 路 26-30, F
@dreamsicle 馃槧馃槧
dreamsicle 路 46-50, F
@LaurieKitKat94 You're very childish. Good luck to you and whoever's burden you become.
SW-User
Seven months isn't long enough to forget but it's too long to put your life on hold and you don't serve someone's memory well by giving up on life yourself. They would want you to live the life that they no longer can, to cherish it.
If you don't feel that you are coping well with the grief then you need to seek counselling and you may need medication. What you can't do is nothing. That just isn't practical.
If you don't feel that you are coping well with the grief then you need to seek counselling and you may need medication. What you can't do is nothing. That just isn't practical.
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@LaurieKitKat94 No, I'm actually on your side, I want you to get on with your life and not let it stagnate.
LaurieKitKat94 路 26-30, F
@SW-User Even by best friend is telling me I can't be sad all the time. She wasn't gentle with me about this. She is sad too but she said to don't expect her to pamper me all the time and I need to shape up and be a woman. She said my parents WANTED me to supper to become a better person. Not the answer I wanted. She is too blunt and assertive
SW-User
@LaurieKitKat94 It is maybe the answer that you needed though. You didn't die, your friend did. Honour their memory by living!
LaurieKitKat94 路 26-30, F
@Keeper 馃槧馃槧
Gouzi 路 26-30, M
If you were my daughter, i'd kick you out. It seems you are so stupid only the necessity of survival or would make you get a job.
LaurieKitKat94 路 26-30, F
@Gouzi I though this was a great website but I might leave! You guys don't even care! My friend passed away and you guys are telling me to grow up! 馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃挃馃挃馃挃馃挃馃挃馃挃馃槧馃槧馃槧馃槧馃槧馃槧馃槧馃槧
Gouzi 路 26-30, M
@LaurieKitKat94 try using a cute profile picture. It may result in more empathy.
LaurieKitKat94 路 26-30, F
@Gouzi 馃槷馃槷馃槷馃槷
Ian123 路 61-69, M
I think there are faults on both sides. why dont you all get together and talk it through. Get the problems talked about and you can move on.
Platoscave 路 F
Have you tried living on your own before?
Do you have a girlfriend who can share with you?
Do you have salable skills?
Do you have a girlfriend who can share with you?
Do you have salable skills?