Is it possible to analyze life as if we could remove ourselves from our subjective sphere of perception, and write something as if we were from the outside looking in?
People say opposites attract, but that in itself has loads of philosophy to go with it. I read a study about what kind of opposites attract and what kind repel, but I already fogrot all about it, making me wonder why I ever read anything. Another, very deep observation, has been that opposites attract two infatuated strangers, but those same opposites tear people apart when they're no longer intriguing little quirks. So, if the picture is the question, it's not so simple.
No...the picture just about sums it up. We seek a connection with people out of evolutionary instinct and also for way to symbolically connect to deal with our ego suffering (ie fear of death).