I hate the situation!!

@Danirose Well, if you caught them in a lie, then why couldn't you just say "hey, you said this thing, but it's not true and this is how I know"?



Edit: It is how I prefer people to talk to me anyways.

@Danirose That is even more important to be upfront about where you got your information then. I had a stalker who would slander me to people I knew and caused a lot fo drama in my life. When anyone bothered to say "hey _____ says _____ and ____ about you" I was able to lay out the situation to them.

Most people wouldn't do that, they would try on the sly to bring up stuff about me that that I knew was slander specifically spread by the guy stalking me and see how I reacted to it. From that point on I had to not trust those individuals as they were trusting my stalker and would be a source of information for him.

Best policy is to always tell. Unless it's a situation where sharing your information would be illegal for confidentiality reasons.

@anythingoes477 Yeah, no. I would lie all the time to someone who didn't trust me just because I wouldn't trust them to believe the truth. Fuck that noise. They can scram from my life.