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I Am Learning About Myself

My problem is I realized I am always trying to please everyone, make everyone like me whether its random strangers that I met online or ppl in my life.

Its been so emotinally draining for me always being scared that ppl don't like me. BUT now I know its my problem

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VirtuallyYours · 56-60, M

That is the first of 12 steps ;)
Good thing you recognized it, trust me, there is no way to please everyone all the time. Just do your best to please yourself and let the rest sort its self out.

Minyue · 26-30, F

Most times its easier said than done. We live in a world where we benefit from one another or help one another a nicer way of saying it. Like I gotta please my boss and some of my school frens because I will be needing their help or I dont want them to make my life a living hell