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I Am Learning About Myself

My problem is I realized I am always trying to please everyone, make everyone like me whether its random strangers that I met online or ppl in my life.

Its been so emotinally draining for me always being scared that ppl don't like me. BUT now I know its my problem

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RoyX54 · 36-40, M

It's a good thing you know what your problem is now. The next step is to find the solution to your problem, of which I feel you already know what to do. From what you explained, my advice is,do the best you can. And do it willingly. Don't try to please everybody. Remember each of us has different expectations and so we can only do our Best to make sure we have good results. Wishing you the very Best in life! :)

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Minyue · 26-30, F

yeah thank you for pointing that out. My self esteem really is rock bottom . Its something that I am still dealing with on a daily basis.

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VirtuallyYours · 56-60, M

That is the first of 12 steps ;)
Good thing you recognized it, trust me, there is no way to please everyone all the time. Just do your best to please yourself and let the rest sort its self out.

Minyue · 26-30, F

Most times its easier said than done. We live in a world where we benefit from one another or help one another a nicer way of saying it. Like I gotta please my boss and some of my school frens because I will be needing their help or I dont want them to make my life a living hell

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