a. Kneel on top of them, using your hands to gently (or roughly, if you're feeling a bit 50 Shades) push off their chest and slide up and down their thighs.
b. You can always lean back and support yourself on their thighs, to give them a serious view.
What's the benefit? By being in the dominant position, you’ll delay their climax - and intensify yours.
Want to take it next level? Give both of you a boost by widening your knees or bringing them closer to their body. Yeehaw!
Can't figure it out? Picture this:
My experience of this is filled with a preference. I like to think my partner is enjoying the additional stimulus of sight of me enjoying being with him, and he enjoys the contribution I make to our mutual pursuit of satisfying sex!
However, it is about keeping the depths of our mutual ecstasy climbing towards joint orgasm that a fluidity of positioning includes climbing into this position from another, and then maybe assuming another position before we both come.
I agree. Cowgirl and reverse Cowgirl are terrific positions. They allow more control for the woman to be able to get the most from this pleasurable experience!