Why do they do this? [I Am Trying to Lose Weight]

they are sabotaging your diet because of jealousy or envy or God only knows what reason. My ex husband would make stupid remarks about my weight & when I’d diet & lose a good amount he’d start sabotaging it by bringing chocolate or whatever in the house. I got to where I wouldn’t peep that I was on a diet, I would eat what appeared a normal amount of food for dinner when we ate together but it was heavy on the light veggies & less meat etc. I’d walk for miles when he wasn’t around. After losing enough weight that someone he worked with would make a remark he would come home & start being emotionally abusive. I could never win with him & any progress I made for myself would be challenged with hatefulness because of it.

Keep your goals to yourself. There are people out there who dont want to see others achieve their goals. It's a sad truth.

I think people are just insecure and they hide it by controlling other people.

If you successfully [b]lose[/b] weight, they’ll have nothing to nag you about. Surprising how people will sabotage you to keep a dynamic going that [b]they’re[/b] comfortable with.