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I Am the Family Scapegoat

I am the oldest, and I am the stepchild. My "natural" father died when I was 2 so I never knew him. Being the oldest and a stepchild just made me an easy target to blame when things went wrong. Its sad, but I am just now coming to the realization that its not okay. I hate the thought of giving up on my family, but when I stand up for myself I am the bad guy. So I have to put myself first and say goodbye to my family. I am sad for me, its a loss, but I deserve to heal and I cannot do that with the constant negativity and blame.

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jaymic64 · M

Same here

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jaymic64 · M

@Cutiepi23 I wish I had a great answer for you. I don’t do FB because my family does. You have the right to say who comes and sees you. I only let the people who want to be in my life in my life. It’s a hard choice to make but better in the end. I hope this helps.

Cutiepi23

@jaymic64 I must make that decision very soon. Thanks for your support 😊

jaymic64 · M

@Cutiepi23 anytime. That’s why we’re here. Be safe my friend 🤗

Cutiepi23

I am still the scapegoat I find it impossible to leave at the moment. It's getting worse now as they are involving anyone who will listen and spread complete blatant lies.

Goralski · 51-55, M

Do you have red hair? ?

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