Obviously I am not coping well obviouslyI do not have the best coping mechanism. I run away. I...

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

You are not a horrible person....you’ve been through a lot, and you cope in your own way. It might not be what some see as a good coping mechanism, but you need to do what works for you. 🤗

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Addressing your needs doesn't make you a horrible person, I think. Only if it's extremely selfish at the time, otherwise that's probably coming from someone too immature to manage their own needs and trying to make them your responsibility, in my opinion.

SW-User

You are. Get therapy instead of complaining about your shitty problems to random strangers on the internet

Bigcountry1965 · 56-60, M

We all cope in different ways don’t make you a bad person and you shouldn’t get shamed just remember true friends will always be there when you get ready to talk