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Well personally I'm looking forward to becoming a middle aged drunk who groped me
Slink · 26-30, F
@Llort
I don't mean to sound callous. I assure you though, that you're certainly not alone in experiencing horror. No one is down playing your terror, but I think your idea of forgiveness is misunderstood. Forgiveness isn't for the perpetrator. It's for yourself. It took me a very long time to distinguish the difference. It's not something anyone can just tell you to do, or that you can just make your mind up to do one day out of the blue. You first have to understand what it means to you.
I don't mean to sound callous. I assure you though, that you're certainly not alone in experiencing horror. No one is down playing your terror, but I think your idea of forgiveness is misunderstood. Forgiveness isn't for the perpetrator. It's for yourself. It took me a very long time to distinguish the difference. It's not something anyone can just tell you to do, or that you can just make your mind up to do one day out of the blue. You first have to understand what it means to you.