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Never ever ........

Be afraid to love anyone
Even it's scary
Even if it may break your heart
Even if it's for a short time
Even if it consumes you whole
Even if they don't love you back

The more we love
The more we learn about others and about ourselves

Just a thought....
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Tbh I'm scared.

The last time I did love someone, it broke me. I healed and I found someone amazing to realize nothing lasts forever. People leave eventually and I end up getting hurt as a cycle.

I stopped loving. I guess I'm not cut out for it.
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@Beatbox34 I'm sorry that happened to you ...we are all made to love and be loved ...love can be in many forms ,not just romantic love ...
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I completely understand.

I'll tell you why I said that. So basically I was talking to someone today and they asked me a question, "So you don't have friends?". I said yeah. I mean I do but most of them only are present when they need something from me. That kinda sucks and that's actually why I'm introverted.

I wish people would see me for the way I am and not for their own selfish needs. Sadly that's not how the world can be.
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@Beatbox34 🤗 I am sorry you feel that way ..people can be selfish but also there are those who can be kind and caring..its just a matter of sifting through people and patience ..don't give up there are decent people out there
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 we always think the ultimate goal is the other person to feel for us to the same depth but we never really stop to think how we are all different and love differently. You met people who left for their reasons, other people like you may have been in the same situation.. it doesn't devalue your love.
perhaps it is a matter of luck to meet someone who's way of loving is compatible with yours. It's not your fault nor your character, it is all luck and perspective. If you believe it won't work, surprise surprise, it WON'T because it's like you've already decided before trying. The world is so big we don't know if we will meet our kind of love but it is worth to reach out when you see an opportunity for something good. So, leave the past where it belongs and step bravely into the new. What happens after is not otally your choice nor worry. Just arrange your sails in the direction you want. The rest is probability. As long as you maintain your mindset of growth and try new things in life, you will have a chance despite the winds of change :)
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Busybee333 Thank you for kind words. I agree with you.