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I Just Realized

My friend just told me that the reason that the women I have been pursuing (IRL for relationships) haven't been working out because they're not my type

I asked her what my type is, and she told me my type is the "sweet innocent virgin type"

Apparently she can usually tell just by looking at pictures, and those were always the girls that I liked the most and was fascinated by even though I didn't actually know they were virgins (she insists she can tell)

Thinking back, that's what I always wanted, but I decided that I wasn't worthy of what I really wanted and tried for something else

I'm gentle and loving, scary strong but a protector and not a danger, and want a deep bond of love, absolutely adore when a woman is clingy because she really likes me, totally love being playful and I like to be old fashioned

Would a woman of that type ever give me a chance? Looking deep down, that really is what I want

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I totally just realized, the type of women that I like best really do like me, I just live in the US where there's not a lot of innocence left, a lot of that type that are too young liked me (off the table because I'm not willing to meeting Bubba in prison), women from countries where abstinence until marriage is common liked me, and the few times I got to know a sweet innocent virgin that was of age and lived near to me I felt like I wasn't good enough and I was terrified out of my mind thinking I would get hurt or mess up because I didn't feel good enough and knew I would fall in love too hard to fast

It all makes sense now, I'm sure I'll meet one again, I just need to realize that they do actually like me (always have until I blew it) and not be afraid, not worry about being good enough and just treat them well, and it will work out

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LeopoldBloom · M

You sound too picky. Instead of looking for a particular type, you should focus on compatibility.

Just curious, are you a virgin? Because if you’re not, it’s unreasonable for you to expect your partner to be one.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@LeopoldBloom no, but a preference is a preference

Many women who aren’t rich expect a wealthy partner, many women who aren’t smart want a smart partner, honestly that’s just a limited view that is blinded from any wisdom

LeopoldBloom · M

@th3r0n And those women are being unreasonable too. Maybe you need to look past your “preference.”

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@LeopoldBloom don't get me wrong, I'm not stuck on it

I'm willing to be with a woman who isn't within those preferences, in fact my best friend that I want to marry has two kids, but ideals exist even if we can't attain them, but it's not solid that we can't

LeopoldBloom · M

@th3r0n As long as you’re willing to be flexible.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@LeopoldBloom yeah, I’m aware that I’m not worthy of what I want, though somehow my best friend Tori, though she’s not the submissive innocent girl I thought I wanted, but rather an independent badass chick that could kill almost anyone in a flash, somehow that crazy wild slightly crazy, very genius, incredible woman, would be more to me than what I wanted