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I Feel Like Everyone Hates Me

It's just seems like all my life people don't like me as much as others. No one seems to want to get to know me or meet me but they do other people. Then people just don't treat me the same way they treat others. I asked my gf why everyone hates me and what I do that makes them hate me and she said it's all in my head and that they don't all hate me. I just see how easy it is for other people to make friends and it's so much harder for me. Like my gf moved here about a year ago and has more friends and better/closer friends than I've made in the 14 years I've lived here. I just don't get what's so wrong with me that I can't make friends or have anyone to not hate me.

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Daniel1120 · 26-30, M

@poptartinvasion yeah I'm starting college in like 2 weeks and am gonna join clubs and yeah I do have a job but at work no one seems to treat me the same. Maybe cuz they've worked there a lot longer but I got a promotion instead of them? But I don't know hopefully I'll be able to make friends in clubs but I'm extremely shy from always feeling like this so it'll be hard for me.

Poptartinvasion

College brings people out of their comfort zone a lot of times. Especially with clubs. I think you'll be fine college is very different from highschool and it's just so much easier to interact with people there because there's so many interesting personalities and there's bound to be someone you can connect with. I wouldn't let the job thing get to you especially if you're new. A lot of workers find it hard to approach new employees. Maybe you should try and speak to them a bit more and get to know them. Also people do get major egos when they've worked someone a while or longer so that may be it as well. I'm sure it's nothing personal they'll come around eventually. It always happens at my job with new people.

Specialyouare · 31-35, F

I get so affected when I feel someone doesn’t like me. I don’t want to be that way. I want to be that person that says: You don’t like me... haha... I don’t care. I go through days where I feel like a burden and everyone looks down on me. But I need to stop. We need to stop putting ourselves down and letting others’ perception of us define our worth and living breathing beings. You are perfect AND beautiful! And you don’t need to be any different or seek acceptance from anyone!

Daniel1120 · 26-30, M

@Specialyouare damn this a blast from the past 😂😂 me and that girl broke up. I’m much more confident now. I have a new girlfriend. Actually met her when I went away to college for a semester. Decided I hated college and am now in the process for enlisting in the Coast Guard. I ship out April 10th. This pathetic part of me is dead. I’m much more confident, full of life, and super excited for what the future has ahead of me.

Specialyouare · 31-35, F

I’m so happy for you friend! All the best! You will are the definition of fulfillment and success! 😊👍😃

Domii1 · 26-30, M

I want to say something to you but i dont know what :c so i will say im here for you... ;-;

Poptartinvasion

I don't have many friends either but I don't think people hate me. I just haven't found someone I can actually connect with and trust. Do you work or go to school? A lot of times people make good friends through work or school clubs/activities maybe try to get more involved in things and the friendship thing should happen natural. You shouldn't beat yourself up about it. A lot of people have trouble making friends.

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