How can I let this happen to me?
Falling in love with a married woman after I divorced my wife for cheating on me.
This is the ULTIMATE betrayal and I'm such a selfish person
This is the ULTIMATE betrayal and I'm such a selfish person
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nowic2 · 61-69, M
If you have doubts about yourself & how this will end up. Get out now to avoid a lot of pain for yourself & others. The further you go, the worse/harder it gets.
JustA · 36-40, M
@nowic2 you're right man. I never wanted any of it. I tried so dang hard to avoid falling for her but somehow it happened. So much people could get hurt here and I don't think I want to take the fall for that.
She has 5 kids, 4 minors. I live with my 3 underaged kids and I already put them through a lot when I divorced their mom so just imagine how they would feel when they find this out.
Things could get real ugly man
She has 5 kids, 4 minors. I live with my 3 underaged kids and I already put them through a lot when I divorced their mom so just imagine how they would feel when they find this out.
Things could get real ugly man
nowic2 · 61-69, M
@JustA you're in a tough situation man. I certainly don't envy you. It's always harder when you have others to care for. You obviously care a lot for your kids. Be proud of that.
For me as a father, I would make my kids the priority until they are able to be independent. Then you can be free.
Of course I have no idea of your situation. Is it possible though just to make this a friend's only thing???
All the best reardless of how it works out.
For me as a father, I would make my kids the priority until they are able to be independent. Then you can be free.
Of course I have no idea of your situation. Is it possible though just to make this a friend's only thing???
All the best reardless of how it works out.
JustA · 36-40, M
@nowic2 we agreed on being friends but each time I talk to her, my feelings only got more intense! So I'm really trying to take a couple steps back and think things through
You're right man, my kids are my main priority here. I'm ALWAYS thinking about them.
I appreciate well wishes man
You're right man, my kids are my main priority here. I'm ALWAYS thinking about them.
I appreciate well wishes man