How can I let this happen to me?

@MushroomFaerie I'm trying so hard not to act but my body aches. I resented my wife for so many years when she cheated. I can't believe I'm letting myself go there

@JustA exactly so use your brain instead of your aching knob head

@MushroomFaerie you're absolutely right

@HannahSky I guess so

@JustA duh

@Ynotisay I honestly believe it'll end badly

@JustA Yep. Dishonesty has a way of biting us in the ass. Easier to draw a line in the sand and just don't do it. One way to make it right. And that's thinking about other people. Here's to it working out.

@Ynotisay Dang! You're right man

@nowic2 you're right man. I never wanted any of it. I tried so dang hard to avoid falling for her but somehow it happened. So much people could get hurt here and I don't think I want to take the fall for that.

She has 5 kids, 4 minors. I live with my 3 underaged kids and I already put them through a lot when I divorced their mom so just imagine how they would feel when they find this out.

Things could get real ugly man

@JustA you're in a tough situation man. I certainly don't envy you. It's always harder when you have others to care for. You obviously care a lot for your kids. Be proud of that.

For me as a father, I would make my kids the priority until they are able to be independent. Then you can be free.

Of course I have no idea of your situation. Is it possible though just to make this a friend's only thing???

All the best reardless of how it works out.

@nowic2 we agreed on being friends but each time I talk to her, my feelings only got more intense! So I'm really trying to take a couple steps back and think things through

You're right man, my kids are my main priority here. I'm ALWAYS thinking about them.

I appreciate well wishes man

@BalmyNites that's so dang true

@JustA Isn’t it just 🤗