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I Really Hate Saying Good Bye

I've been speaking to someone online for 14 months. We didn't meet and he just always dodged the question, I was finally true to my feelings and confronted him about it and the distance recently between us, he told me I only care about myself. Today I finally said goodbye and blocked him off everything, don't care if anyone says its sad but I honestly feel like shit, but it was the best thing to do for the both of us :(

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texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

Didn't you just kinda prove his point? no offence don't know the whole story just based on what you said.

johnnykirwan18 · 22-25, T

@texasdaddydom no she was putting herself first

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@johnnykirwan18 that confirms not contradicts...not saying it wasn't the right thing to do

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@texasdaddydom I've always only thought about him and his insecurities all this time and helped him through everything his life handed to him, I also changed my lifestyle just so I could be at home and speak to him and play games with him. I feel as though I was entitled to let him know how much I wanted to be with him in real life and that I just wanted to stay by his side and become serious? But he didn't seem to show much interest nor did he retaliate to anything I had said to him. He also said the reason we drifted is because "he's in his own world 24/7 nd forgets stuff".

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@Vallesia ok with this perspective he sounds like a user and you wise to move on sorry if it is painful

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@texasdaddydom I didn't really want to go too much into depth with it because I honestly feel broken haha, sorry... I also eventually took all the blame for everything anyway, I said in the end that it was all my fault cause I didn't want him to feel bad or feel like a victim 😂😂 I'm such a mad person

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@Vallesia sounds like you too nice, taking all the blame is shielding him from growth opportunity but that isn't you worry any more. relationships work best when both are equally invested maybe hold back till you find someone willing to invest as much as you... don't know what you want or need right now best advice i could think of..for now know you made the best possible choice and I have no doubt further on you will have another chance...best of luck to you