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I Really Hate Saying Good Bye

I've been speaking to someone online for 14 months. We didn't meet and he just always dodged the question, I was finally true to my feelings and confronted him about it and the distance recently between us, he told me I only care about myself. Today I finally said goodbye and blocked him off everything, don't care if anyone says its sad but I honestly feel like shit, but it was the best thing to do for the both of us :(

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SW-User

Good girl. You can do better . It's sad but it will change.

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

Didn't you just kinda prove his point? no offence don't know the whole story just based on what you said.

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texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@Vallesia ok with this perspective he sounds like a user and you wise to move on sorry if it is painful

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@texasdaddydom I didn't really want to go too much into depth with it because I honestly feel broken haha, sorry... I also eventually took all the blame for everything anyway, I said in the end that it was all my fault cause I didn't want him to feel bad or feel like a victim 😂😂 I'm such a mad person

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@Vallesia sounds like you too nice, taking all the blame is shielding him from growth opportunity but that isn't you worry any more. relationships work best when both are equally invested maybe hold back till you find someone willing to invest as much as you... don't know what you want or need right now best advice i could think of..for now know you made the best possible choice and I have no doubt further on you will have another chance...best of luck to you

Elegy · 46-50

Yeah, that shit hurts. Good luck, it will get better eventually.

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@Elegy thank you, I hope so

Elegy · 46-50

@Vallesia I know so, There is no telling what wen't wrong. you'll be analysing it for a long time. Also, you can't know his mind or heart so don't waste your time dwelling there. It's a black hole. Find some friends and keep yourself occupied. In a week you'll be shocked at the difference. Then a month will go by and all of a sudden it'll be six months or a year. Trust madam, it is a time game and there is nothing left for you back there.

Captainawesome · 31-35, M

Sounds painful.

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@Captainawesome not gonna lie I feel awful

Captainawesome · 31-35, M

@Vallesia I've lost a few friends worth unblocking and reaching out to ?

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