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I Get Bullied

Why are some people so mean?
Gotallota36-40, M
Just remember that bullies are cowards and are only jealous of you and what they can not have or ever obtain which is bravery to be themselves
PhoenixPhailM
I think they feel really insecure and powerless.
Maybe if they can find someone who's less powerful than they are, it gives them a feeling of being powerful. IDK.
unfortunately people are like that.
I have experienced it in my past.
SW-User
I do not know.
They will target people they think are vulnerable in some way.
Pretty shitty of them, but they seek out easy targets or who they think will be easy targets as victims.
We live in a society that tells the weak to be strong without showing them how.
We should protect and encourage; not slander and abuse.
I'm sorry people do this to you.
valhallaM
These people are either insecure or have been the target of some form of meanness. They then shove it on others. Misery loves company.
Some people think it's the only way to have power/control. Find a weaker target, assert dominance. They probably have felt helpless or targeted themselves at some point (that's why people who have been bullied often end up a bully at some point). I don't have much advice for stopping it, to be honest.
Fauxmyope226-30, F
That is a question for the ages?
wuiop241-45
In my experience, they seek to feel better due to various aspects of themselves which they deem insufficient.

The only thing you truly need to worry about is how you conduct yourself. The rest will fall into place. :)
ArtisticStatic36-40, M
It's easier to be an asshole than to be a genuinely nice person. Doesn't make it right or fair, but that is the truth of it.
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
@ArtisticStatic Thank you for the honesty.
Cassandra136-40, T
Im sorry but there are good people out there
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
@Cassandra1 I know there are good people out there. I have met some of them.
Cassandra136-40, T
Don't let the assholes get u down
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
I won't thank you.
MURD3RM0NK3Y26-30, M
Don鈥檛 let people do that to you.. I let it slide a lot of times and I wish I wouldn鈥檛 have
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
@MURD3RM0NK3Y I will keep that in mind. Thank you.
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Bastard26-30, M
Honestly, it's fun.
nonfatyergert26-30, M
I'll beat them up 4 u
Finegent22-25, M
People are the worst
NiftyWhite46-50, F
my best friend was bullied a lot as a kid. honestly i think he prob made himself a target at least some of the time. a show off, a know it all, a bit of a kiss ass.... kids like to burst those kinds of bubbles because it grates on their nerves
Blooo26-30, M
You should ask them. Probably abusive parents, those guys are or have suffered psychologically for sure.
Blooo26-30, M
@Princessbabygirl4 Just know that a person that enjoys making people sad aren鈥檛 happy themselves. You could either be so mean to them they鈥檒l stop (will work on 20%) or be so kind to them they鈥檒l have no choice to be kind to you (works 99% of cases)
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
Thank you. That helps a lot.
Blooo26-30, M
I鈥檓 glad it does! :) @Princessbabygirl4
LondonCowboy51-55, M
I hope you aren鈥檛 still being bullied and if you are then you need to leave those bullies behind and move on to some decent people who will treat you with Respect 馃尮
Justme596961-69, M
If daddy was there they would leave you alone, or else I would kick their ass!!
IWasCallingYaLarry26-30, M
I was bullied in school a lot at least in high school :( . Because I was different.
SW-User
Really sorry to hear that sweetheart bullying is awful to experience 馃槩馃槩馃槩
FilthyBeastM
Who bullies you?
Princessbabygirl422-25, F
@FilthyBeast It doesn't matter but thank you for caring.
FilthyBeastM
@Princessbabygirl4 I hate bullies. I get that they are often bullied themselves and blah blah blah but I really despise them. I was bullied and I protected others from bullying. As an adult I simply won't tolerste it. I get into full on conflict mode whenever anyone tries to intimidate or bully me or someone I know.
masterofyou70-79, M
Because they are..... And it is wrong....馃挒
nevergiveupM
when you find out let me know
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BigGuy226-30, M
What鈥檚 happened

 
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