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I Am Irritated As Hell

How can anyone justify being a stay-at-home wife but never lifting a finger to clean your house or groom your pets or even cook for your husband, who works all day???? You have to be a lazy, worthless piece of garbage to live that way. Dead weight. Just mooching off of your husband and doing NOTHING else.

This is my MOTHER-IN-LAW I'm talking about! I've never in my life known anyone so lazy and selfish. Her dogs piss all over her floor and she doesn't bother to clean it up- I do it most of the time. And if she does clean it up, she won't use a disinifectant- nope, just a dirty mop already covered in old piss water from the last time she used it. Gross. Her kitchen is digusting, her fridge is a hazardous waste zone, and everything in her house is covered in about 2 inches of dust and cigarette ashes. When you walk into her house, you smell nothing but unwashed dog, dog piss, and ashtray stink.

It's fucking filty and she's fucking pathetic. There is no excuse for living that way. She is not disabled, and she is perfectly capable of keeping a clean house, she's simply too LAZY.
Highonheels · 51-55, M
My ex wife was pretty much the same way, I’d go to work for 12 hours a day on the tug boats working my ass off just to come home and find the house in shambles the kids would leave food all over and dirty dishes and piles of clothes and my wife didn’t have any sense of organization , it got so bad it started attracting cockroaches and mice 🐁 and she wouldn’t make the kids do anything or teach them any morals about living clean , I’d come home and have to do my best to make up for my wife’s laziness and try to teach the kids how wrong it was to live in such a messy way but I couldn’t do it all alone , it drove me insane to the point that it drove us slowly apart and now we are now separated.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Highonheels She sounds exactly like my MIL. I'm glad you got away from her.
Highonheels · 51-55, M
@DearAmbellina2113 yea me to but the sad part was I had to leave my kids behind with her
I don’t know, I really just think the stay at home mom thing is just bull crap overall and really just not necessary for such a long period of time like people use it to be, a lot of husbands just end up complaining behind their wives back and it just screws the person working over if you decide to divorce or whatever 😂 but at the same time I don’t really care because it’s not my business or household it’s just my personal opinion on the idea of a “stay at home mom” 🤷🏽‍♀️
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Stark I agree, I think it's a bullshit excuse to be lazy and not contribute to the household finances. Because of all the SAHM's I've known, 99% of them didn't do any cooking or cleaning or teaching the children- they just sat on their asses and played with their phones or wasted time online while the kids ran wild in the house. Pathetic.
@DearAmbellina2113 Even if they did do stuff honestly is it necessary to be a stay at home mom to do all that? What about the moms who do work [b]and[/b] do all they do?? Like waaaat? I just don’t get it and I never have understood the stay at home mom thing. It seems like a way to be in control for men and a lame excuse for women to not do anything. I’ also would personally prefer to have my own career and income as well. I need us to be as close to 50/50 as possible when it comes to all that shit. But to each his own.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Stark I'm the same way, I can't live without my independence.
SW-User
I have empathy for you. This is pretty disgusting. Id be miserable as well.
Damn. At first I thought you met my first wife. You described her to a tee.
@DearAmbellina2113 yeah, really traded up. Current one cooks and cleans, but ignores and criticizes. Thinking I'm just done with it all.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@PrivateHell I'm sorry. Seems like most people really are worthless these days.
@DearAmbellina2113 true. Just tired of being made to feel that way tonight.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
As long as you don't live there why be upset?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@GJOFJ3 I HAD my own place, got laid off, and the in-laws insisted we move in with them to "get on our feet". But I can't stand MIL or her disgusting house, so I'm moving out in December. But I have every goddamn right to be pissed off. If you don't like it, stop reading and move the fuck on.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@DearAmbellina2113 wow. Be as pissed as you want. Life is about choices and attitude. You biggest roadblock to happiness is you not you MIL
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@GJOFJ3 Oh please. 🙄
SW-User
Let it all out...vent away..but go outside to take a deep breath to calm down,as it sounds a filth hole inside lol
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User It is.
SW-User
@DearAmbellina2113 I've read your latest post. And you've been dealt a difficult hand in life. Can see why your outlook in life isn't positive.
We are all here to listen,anytime not much else I can say. Big international hugs coming your way x
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User If I was sanitary police I'd haul her lazy ass to prison.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I had no idea they lived like this when I moved here. Once I leave, I will NEVER come back.
thatscottishguy · 26-30, M
woah calm doon my san

 
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