I Fall For the Bad Guys

I fear psychological abuse more than I fear physical abuse. physical wounds can be healed. psychological wounds do never completely heal no matter how much support you get. that's my experience.

I think molesting carries a lot of psychological abuse with it.

Do you think that most males have done something like this ?

@StefanoHopkins: no. but here in this country there is a strict taboo of physical violence but big tolerance of psychological violence. so I prefer to ignore biased advices

the so-called bad guys are often just a little wild
the real bad guys pretend to be decent guys

vampire yes. biker gang no. they are just violent bullies but not sexy

no risk no fun. we have a saying here: "The sooner you die, the longer you are dead"

@Klesingo: until it happens to you.

@sighmeupforthat: what happens happens. there are people who live a very long life with money and everything - and had never ever good sex. just enough to make 2 kids

"good guys" (those with good jobs, money, big cars) use to judge women like us. they are jealous