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My aunt never apologized for yelling at me! Nobody stood up for me. Do you think that was messed up?

Warning long rant.

So three weeks ago, we were helping putting away groceries and all that junk. After a few minutes one of my cousin, my other aunt (let’s call her Maddie) and I sat down to rest.
So Aunt B looked at us and said, “Why am I the only one finishing up! LAYLA GET YOU ASS UP AND HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!”
That shock me when she yelled at me. We were like, “Okay jeez.” Aunt Maddie and my cousin didn’t even stand up for me at all. They just sat there. Why did Aunt B didn’t yell at them but yelled at me? Why was I the only one that got yelled at. This was three weeks ago. She yelled at me before. She never apologized for yelling at me. I got so upset that I went into my room and cried my eyes out.
My sister said, “We aren’t going to always be around or stand up for you. You need to start doing that for yourself. Stop letting people talk to you like that. You need to stand up to Aunt B next time. You have this anger inside because you’ve been yelled at, pushed around and always get insulted and been the punching bag. Stop! And start being assertive. You’re going to start acting like a bitch a little.”
Why’s is my aunt yell at me and not them! Is it because she expects me to helping since I do help a lot.

I told my guy best friend about that and he said, “Layla, AGAIN why do you let people talk to you like that?! You seriously need to stop that! It’s getting old.”

I said, “I wanted to but she’s my aunt and I have to respect my elders. She never apologized for yelling at me. She only yelled at me and-“

He cut me off saying, “Layla would you stop it?! Her being your aunt is no excuse for yelling at you like that. Can’t you see that? Don’t expect an apology. She probably only yelled at you because she expected you to help because you do help a lot. We’re not going to always stand up for you. YOU have to do that yourself. They probably thought you were going to say something and stayed back. You’re going to suffer abuse if you don’t speak up! You’re almost 18. Start acting like it!
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Dancingxghost · 36-40, M
You been ranting about the same things over and over. And I get your point. It hurts but sometimes we get yelled out for no reason that doesnt mean that people doesnt love you. Maybe they are just frustrated thats not excuse for yelling at you but there are more variables than the ones you can see. Now that being said..if you want an apology ask for it. That doesnt mean you have to yell back or insult. Just calmly say please dont use that kind of tone with me..I will help you. there are many ways to de escalate a situation.

 
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