I Do Not Get Why Sexual Women Are Judged

I think men are scared of getting what they want.

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froggtongue · M

I dislike when we generalize groups of people. Maybe certain things can be true, but often just considering it a bit more might overturn our thoughts. Sure, some men might be scared of getting what they want. I think I might very well be one of those. But not all are like that. Same with women. Same with whatever term you want to put on somebody.

fddlpej · 61-69, M

@froggtongue then if they are not intimidated by them maybe they wouldn't be judging them.

froggtongue · M

@fddlpej i think you miss the point of what i'm saying. We should view it more as individual basis. Women too can be scared of getting what they want.

So let's say it as a person might judge another as a nice person for being sexual. Or is the thought that judging is always bad? Judging is weighing options and listening to sides and evidence and reason and considering then deciding the best way to do something. But i'll give it that in the normal cultural context that in situations like this that a person means judging the other in a bad light and chiding or even condemning the other instead of judging the person to be reasonable. Well then if you find that person who is judging talk to him or her. Do your best. Maybe you can help the other. Maybe you won't be able to. This discussion is better had with the person with the problem.

fddlpej · 61-69, M

@froggtongue how many guys in high school talked about sex. They would talk bad about the girls who wouldn't put out for .them.
Then a girl that might put out for them they would say I wouldn't touch them they probably have the clap.